What is

We spend so much of our lives living in what if .......

What if I was thinner? , What if I'd stayed with him?
What if I did this? , What if I'd gone?
What if he did that? What if I'd stayed?
What if we had?, What if we hadn't?
What if I had more money?, What if I'd taken the job?

and the millions of other what if's we ask ourselves on a daily basis. Well it's time to let go of what if and start living WHAT IS............. accept what is and make an effort to make the best of the situation. Grasp what you have been given with both hands and take the time to enjoy it and to explore just how good it can be and if it doesn't last instead of asking what if, say it was and then move forward with your new what is.

So from here on out I will be living WHAT IS, laughing at WHAT IS, loving who and WHAT IS and learning that WHAT IS is where I'm meant to be

but most of all I will be remembering "it's NOT about WHAT IF but about WHAT IS"


quote courtesy of Jim Carrey